Love is a mutual bond, but at times we see this love fading away and couples growing apart. Why does this happen? What prevents lovers from maintaining the attraction, passion, the closeness and admiration which they once felt for each other?
Is your relationship the same phase, are you complaining chronically? Are you more into nagging than complementing these days? Is your favorite person less impressed with your attitude nowadays? Let’s checkout 6 ways in which complaining destroys relationships, and why you need to relax a little more.
Try Praising Them, it helps!!
If you keep the nagging button always on your partner is sure to give you back a puffed up frowned face. The always complaining attitude takes away your significant person, try praising them and see the magic in the relationship weave again.
Solution matters, problems doesn’t…
You did this, you did that…it’s your fault…STOP!! Don’t keep weeing over the problems in the relationship, instead try finding the solution to the problem. Solution to the problem helps you work together and bloom the flowers of happiness in the relationship again.
No No Not Always
What ruins every relationship? Your words, your gestures. Don’t hurt your partner’s feelings. Put a full stop to using words like ‘No” and “Always”, Try using words that talk about you two as us. Your choice of words show how you feel about the other person.
No Judging Please
When you are pointing that judging finger on your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband or your partner, or anyone who matters to you, you are showing them what kind of person you are, not who they are. Take a deep breath and throw out that negativity from your mind, add some positivity to your thoughts, about your intent. Don’t judge, find the middle way of love and care.
No Loud Mouth Please
We all have problems in relationships, but gossiping about them won’t solve them. Telling all the tom, dick and harry’s about your personal issues will enhance the problems. Just sit down together, talk among yourself and you will surely find a way out.
Let Bygones, be bygones
The past won’t get you anywhere, whatever happened in the past will just hamper your present day relationship. Live in the present, whatever you have today is the truth live with it, cherish it and pave a happy future with your partner.